Everybody don’t have the “Love Story”

Often I have observed that people are desperate to upload their honeymoon, engagement and wedding photos on social media especially on the Facebook and Instagram. I have tried to find out the answer of the desperateness. (sorry for the wrong sequence of events but I think now days it’s very perfect sequence)  What would be the exact motto or idea behind uploading these photos but as usual I failed. I failed to figure out the reason.

I am completely agreed with the argument that everybody has freedom of voicing their love and affection in society in whatever manner they want to show and it is also justified by Indian constitution under Fundamental Rights Article 19A (unfortunately there are fundamental duties are also mentioned in our holy constitution, many of us conveniently forget that) but I don’t think that is the solo reason behind these photos.

In my opinion there is somewhere inside the feeling of achievement or triumph that see guys now I have also got the life partner in my life. (Dude, what about your previous affairs?? Have you forgotten it? Even one of your former boyfriend/girlfriend was present in your wedding with smiling face for group photo) God bless them who have the only moto in their life to get secure life & wife. One more thing I have observed repeatedly; categorically about the couples who get married in arrange manner. Such type of couple are tried to show how they are only happiest couple on this earth and how they both are unique, how one of them has bring blossom to their life and how their incompleteness is wiped out because of the other partner.

I don’t understand this mind-set? Why? Why everybody want a perfect match in their life? Why nobody want to live with incompleteness? Why everybody tries to find out the sensationalism in stereotypical arrange marriages with hidden slogan that “we too had a love story”… on the contrary they are failed to marry that person with whom they were in love. It’s not possible for everybody to marry the same person with whom you were in love. There is nothing derogatory in that. Accept it and move on.

P.S. decreasing price of electronic gadgets like DSLR cameras and Smart phones is also one of the reasons behind this epidemic.be aware of it.




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